When is enough, enough?

Love is such a big part of our society now a days.  People strive for it, warp their looks and personality just to have a chance at getting it. But once you get someone that you love, and they love you even if it's not healthy,  how do you know that it's time to give it up?

After the initial "honeymoon" period of a relationship things change. It's inevitable,  you get comfortable with each other and you grow together. These changes aren't necessarily bad, but if they are and you don't notice how long should you let it go before enough is enough?

I was in a relationship with D for almost three years. They were the best three years of my life. Don't get me wrong, it was hard, really hard. But the love and happiness he brought me greatly outweighed the bad. D and I worked so well together it was almost flawless.  we had our fair share of fights, but we always got through it.

Last week we were hanging out and everything was fine. But then we got into a stupid little fight about lunch and he broke up with me.  He said he had been thinking about it for a while,  but he didn't say anything about it before. At first I felt betrayed,  he was my best friend and was just going to give up on me that easy?  But now I'm getting used to it as much as I can right now. And I guess all I can do is hope he changes his mind after some time apart. No matter what happens I will definitely always love him. Even if it's time to give up.